Right now merpeople can help us on a personal level with the recalibration and restoration of our energy fields.  When you are at the ocean, call on them.

  • Relax your mind and focus on your heart beat.
  • As you start to feel each beat, put an intention to connect with them on each beat.
  • Once you can do this, let your heart beat travel out of your chest towards the ocean, carrying your intention with it.
  • The ocean waves at this time might change, or the wind will – either way you will feel their presence when they follow your call.
  • At this stage – open yourself up, allow your energy to be full exposed giving full permission for them to sing to you
  • Embrace where you are, the sound of the waves, of the wind, feel the sand between your toes – be in that moment and know that you are being healed by these immensely beautiful creatures.

5 Ways Your Chakras Affect How Well You Communicate, Attract, And Love


Is communication a problem for you? Is it hard for you to confidently say what you mean, and easily be understood?

Do you often stumble and stutter when you have something important to say? Does it feel like your throat is blocked and your voice is stifled?

Are you terrified to speak your mind?

Do people understand you? Are you ‘seen’ and ‘heard’ by others?

Communication is one of the most important life skills. If you can’t communicate well, you can’t be understood, helped, supported and respected.

If you can’t communicate properly you also can’t share yourself. Your creativity, ideas, desire, passions and fears. You’ll find it difficult to fully partake and be in the flow of life.

Being in the flow of life means being open, connected and actively engaged with other people, the planet and the greater Universe. If this isn’t happening your needs are not being met, and you’re not able to enjoy the bounties of life.

We thrive in life when we share ourselves, and when others share themselves with us. We are only happy when we are in a state of interconnection.

Communication is a full-bodied, full-sensory, full-chakric experience. Although it is important to have a healthy and fit throat chakra – your chakra 5 makes sure you are communicating properly – fabulous communication happens when all of our chakras are working properly.

The job of your throat chakra is to articulate what you want, and to make sure this is being heard and acted upon. Many of us though, feel conflicted and don’t know what we want. This then makes it very difficult for the throat chakra.

The job of the throat chakra is to honestly and authentically communicate how we feel, think and what we need. A conflicted throat chakra can only express for us: “I don’t really know how I feel or what I want!” How frustrating!

To be able to communicate fabulously you need to make sure that all of your chakras know what they want and need, so that your throat chakra can ‘pass on this information’ to the outside world. The only way this can happen is by having fit and healthy chakras.

If your base chakra (chakra 1) is working properly, it can tell your throat chakra:

What you need to feel at home, to feel secure and belong to a tribe. If other people know this, they can support you in this.

If your sacral chakra (chakra 2) is working properly, it can tell your throat chakra:

What you desire and what your passions are. What you need to feel beautiful and desired. If you can tell your lover those intimate things, think about how good your love/sex life will become.

If your solar plexus chakra (chakra 3) is working properly, it can tell your throat chakra:

Your moral code and boundaries and how to defend them. What you believe in and will stand up for. If you can say no, and stand up for yourself peacefully and confidently, you not only are able to withstand conflict, you will transform conflict into peaceful negotiations.

If your heart chakra (chakra 4) is working properly, it can tell your throat chakra:

What you love. Who you love. Your throat chakra voices the love you feel and want to give. You can only get the Law of Attraction to work for you if your are giving love! If your heart chakra or your throat chakra aren’t working properly, neither is the Law the Attraction in your life.

If your throat chakra is working properly – and chakras 1 – 4 are working properly too:

You can communicate fabulously, easily express and attract what you need and desire, as well as share your unique personality and style with the world.

Success, prosperity and recognition are only available to those people who are interconnected and engaged with life. Those people that are not afraid to say what they mean, mean what they say and show up in their unique way.

It is only ever through communicating and connecting with another human being that we move closer towards living and expressing our life’s purpose, our grandeur.

Whenever you feel the need to attack someone verbally, or swallow what you need to say, or even refrain from voicing your opinion because you are afraid, remember… are cutting yourself off from the life and the flow of goodness.

In those moments you need to overcome your fears and use your throat chakra, (and then go home and balance your chakras!)

Here’s to fabulous communication. Wouldn’t it change the world!

in White Light + Love,


15 Things You Should Give Up To Be Happy


Written by: Luminita Saviuc, Purpose Fairy | Here is a list of 15 things which, if you give up on them, will make your life a lot easier and much, much happier. We hold on to so many things that cause us a great deal of pain, stress and suffering – and instead of letting them all go, instead of allowing ourselves to be stress free and happy – we cling on to them. Not anymore. Starting today we will give up on all those things that no longer serve us, and we will embrace change. Ready? Here we go:


 There are so many of us who can’t stand the idea of being wrong – wanting to always be right – even at the risk of ending great relationships or causing a great deal of stress and pain, for us and for others. It’s just not worth it. Whenever you feel the ‘urgent’ need to jump into a fight over who is right and who is wrong, ask yourself this question: “Would I rather be right, or would I rather be kind?” Wayne Dyer. What difference will that make? Is your ego really that big?


Be willing to give up your need to always control everything that happens to you and around you – situations, events, people, etc. Whether they are loved ones, coworkers, or just strangers you meet on the street – just allow them to be. Allow everything and everyone to be just as they are and you will see how much better will that make you feel.

“By letting it go it all gets done. The world is won by those who let it go. But when you try and try. The world is beyond winning.” Lao Tzu


 Give up on your need to blame others for what you have or don’t have, for what you feel or don’t feel. Stop giving your powers away and start taking responsibility for your life.


 Oh my. How many people are hurting themselves because of their negative, polluted and repetitive self-defeating mindset? Don’t believe everything that your mind is telling you – especially if it’s negative and self-defeating. You are better than that.

“The mind is a superb instrument if used rightly. Used wrongly, however, it becomes very destructive.” Eckhart Tolle


Give up your limiting beliefs about what you can or cannot do, about what is possible or impossible. From now on, you are no longer going to allow your limiting beliefs to keep you stuck in the wrong place. Spread your wings and fly!

“A belief is not an idea held by the mind, it is an idea that holds the mind” Elly Roselle


 Give up your constant need to complain about those many, many, maaany things – people, situations, events that make you unhappy, sad and depressed. Nobody can make you unhappy, no situation can make you sad or miserable unless you allow it to. It’s not the situation that triggers those feelings in you, but how you choose to look at it. Never underestimate the power of positive thinking.


Give up your need to criticize things, events or people that are different than you. We are all different, yet we are all the same. We all want to be happy, we all want to love and be loved and we all want to be understood. We all want something, and something is wished by us all.


Stop trying so hard to be something that you’re not just to make others like you. It doesn’t work this way. The moment you stop trying so hard to be something that you’re not, the moment you take off all your masks, the moment you accept and embrace the real you, you will find people will be drawn to you, effortlessly.


 Change is good. Change will help you move from A to B. Change will help you make improvements in your life and also the lives of those around you. Follow your bliss, embrace change – don’t resist it.

“Follow your bliss and the universe will open doors for you where there were only walls” Joseph Campbell


 Stop labeling those things, people or events that you don’t understand as being weird or different and try opening your mind, little by little. Minds only work when open. “The highest form of ignorance is when you reject something you don’t know anything about.” Wayne Dyer


Fear is just an illusion, it doesn’t exist – you created it. It’s all in your mind. Correct the inside and the outside will fall into place.
“The only thing we have to fear, is fear itself.”
 Franklin D. Roosevelt


Send them packing and tell them they’re fired. You no longer need them. A lot of times we limit ourselves because of the many excuses we use. Instead of growing and working on improving ourselves and our lives, we get stuck, lying to ourselves, using all kind of excuses – excuses that 99.9% of the time are not even real.


I know, I know. It’s hard. Especially when the past looks so much better than the present and the future looks so frightening, but you have to take into consideration the fact that the present moment is all you have and all you will ever have. The past you are now longing for – the past that you are now dreaming about – was ignored by you when it was present. Stop deluding yourself. Be present in everything you do and enjoy life. After all life is a journey not a destination. Have a clear vision for the future, prepare yourself, but always be present in the now.


This is a concept that, for most of us is so hard to grasp and I have to tell you that it was for me too, (it still is) but it’s not something impossible. You get better and better at with time and practice. The moment you detach yourself from all things, (and that doesn’t mean you give up your love for them – because love and attachment have nothing to do with one another,  attachment comes from a place of fear, while love… well, real love is pure, kind, and self less, where there is love there can’t be fear, and because of that, attachment and love cannot coexist) you become so peaceful, so tolerant, so kind, and so serene. You will get to a place where you will be able to understand all things without even trying. A state beyond words.


Way too many people are living a life that is not theirs to live. They live their lives according to what others think is best for them, they live their lives according to what their parents think is best for them, to what their friends, their enemies and their teachers, their government and the media think is best for them. They ignore their inner voice, that inner calling. They are so busy with pleasing everybody, with living up to other people’s expectations, that they lose control over their lives. They forget what makes them happy, what they want, what they need….and eventually they forget about themselves.  You have one life – this one right now – you must live it, own it, and especially don’t let other people’s opinions distract you from your path.

How to Color Your Hair with Tea

Most people do not know that you can dye your hair effectively at home without any chemicals. Just a couple of tea bags and some herbs will dye your hair naturally. This method is cheap and effective.

-Boil one cup of water.
-Add 3 tea bags to the water and allow the tea to brew.
-Add one teaspoon of rosemary to the tea. Allow the tea to sit for 24 hours.
-Apply the mixture to your hair evenly as if you were applying regular hair dye.
-Leave it on for an hour.
-Rinse off with warm water.
-Do not shampoo your hair for at least 24 hours.

Dark brown hair: Black Tea.
Red hair: Rooibos Tea.
Blonde hair: Chamomile Tea.

Sex and Aural Energy


Pay attention to whom you share your intimate energy with. Intimacy at this level intertwines your aural energy with the aural energy of the other person. These powerful connections, regardless of how insignificant you think they are, leave spiritual debris, particularly within people who do not practice any type of cleansing, physical, emotional or otherwise. The more you interact intimately with someone, the deeper the connection and the more of their aura is intertwined with yours. Imagine the confused aura of someone who sleeps with multiple people and carries around these multiple energies? What they may not realize is that others can feel that energy which can repel positive energy and attract negative energy into your life.

I always say, never sleep with someone you wouldn’t want to be” – Lisa Chase Patterson

I believe the original author of the above passage is Lisa Chase Patterson. How she described the intimate nature of exchanging energy with another during sex is something that I’ve been lecturing friends about for years. It was nice to see someone else discussing it as well.

We are all physical beings, but we are also so much more than that, including ‘energetic beings’. When you get intimate with anyone you merge with their energy. It doesn’t matter if it is OBE (astral) sex, physical sex, or oral sex — anytime you are intimate with another person (or people) you absorb some of their energy and they absorb some of your energy.

If you have sex with positive, loving, uplifting people – that wonderful energy is absorbed and uplifts you. If you have sex with negative, pessimistic, unstable, depressive people – that energy will have you crashing down and uninterested in day-to-day life. (Among other ways. We are all unique after all) Keep in mind that if this person sleeps with a variety of people, they absorb their energy. A married man or woman has absorbed their spouses energy and will mix it with your energy if you are the other man or woman. It’s vice versa.

So the next time you jump into bed with someone or want to hook up for OBE sex – keep in mind that unless they cleanse their energy on a regular basis, you will be getting intimate with whomever they have been intimate with.

Oh, and just so you know, this isn’t a new discovery. Christians often call this connection ‘Soul ties’. It is also widely discussed in the study of Tantric Sex.

As we accumulate unwanted energies in daily life, regular aura cleansing supports health and well-being. Like psychic dust bunnies, we go around collecting debris on our aura, until we finally do something to cleanse it…

It is the same with personal hygiene. If you do not bathe, your body will become dirtier and dirtier. Gradually the smell becomes unbearable. Eventually, your body even becomes a breeding ground for disease and bacteria. If you do not cleanse your aura, your spiritual energy system will also become ‘dirtier and dirtier’. Eventually you become unpleasant for others to be around (though they may not consciously understand why). Your energy system then begins to attract lower vibrations which are also unhealthy for you and others.

In modern culture, we expect people to take care of their personal hygiene by bathing regularly, if not daily. But we are not yet so spiritually evolved!

Cleansing your Aura

Just like washing your hands cleans one part of your body and washing your face takes care of another… different approaches to aura cleansing will support you in clearing different aspects of your energy system. Some aura clearing approaches are more lightweight–in terms of personal hygiene– like changing your clothes, or putting on deodorant. They are still useful, but they can’t replace bathing! Other methods of aura cleansing go much deeper–equivalent to having a good scrub-down, or going for a detoxifying spa treatment.

Options for Cleansing…

Bathing with Epsom Salts

Water helps wash away dirt, both physically and energetically. Adding Epsom Salts to your bath stimulates the flow of your own energy and also draws minor psychic debris out of your aura.


Submerging yourself in water helps cleanse your aura. As ocean water contains salt and minerals, it is especially useful for drawing minor psychic debris out of your aura.


Gentle exposure to sunlight stimulates the flow of your own energy. Some lower vibrations cannot exist with exposure to bright light.


1. Aura Meditation

Even basic meditation helps you relax and release. Aura meditation works directly with releasing unwanted energies through grounding, clearing your aura, energy channels and chakras. One of the most powerful ways to cleanse and care for your aura is energy-based aura meditation.

2. Aura Healings

In an aura healing, the healer supports you in cleansing unwanted energies out of your system. The healer assists you in grounding out psychic debris, releasing blocks and helps you get your own energy flowing. If you’d like to find out more about Aura Healing, I highly recommend you research Reiki. If you’d like to experience it yourself, I recommend you look for a Reiki healer in your area)

3. Aura Readings

Often we confuse other people’s energy with our own energy. When we mistake foreign energy for our own, we do not want to release it. We hold on to it because we think it is us! In a clairvoyant aura reading, a reader can help you identify your own energy and discern foreign energy. When you recognize an energy is not you, it is much easier to release.

4. Feeling your Emotions

When your emotional energy is blocked, it creates congestion and back-up throughout your spiritual energy system. This makes it easy to get stuck with unwanted energies. Allowing yourself to feel hidden emotions creates a release of energy. This movement and flow supports you in cleansing psychic debris.


Other Options for Aura Cleansing…


Standing with an open body posture in a strong wind supports you in releasing unwanted energies. As sea breezes contain moisture, salt and minerals, ocean winds are especially beneficial for aura cleansing.

Gardening or Being in Nature

Through gardening and being in Nature, you come in direct contact with the earth. This helps you get grounded and release unwanted energies out of your system.


Creating something you’re enthusiastic about gives you a ‘creative high’. These surges of creative energy stimulate the flow of your own energy and support you in releasing blocks and unwanted energies.

Here is the source of the information on Aural Cleaning. If you’d like to find out more about aura healing, energy healing, and distant healing, I highly recommend you check out the rest of the website: Aura Cleansing and more

***The first half of this article was written by  and excerpt from: